How do I read in specific XML fields in VB 2003?

[tiak2]

I'm trying to read in an XML field to indicate something. Unfortunatly node indentation is hard to do on this form, so I tried to tell where the node splits into sub nodes. Example:
<NodeA>
(With sub nodes
<Node1>
<Node2>
<Node3>
(With subnodes

<NodeQ>
<NodeLookingfor>
<Node3>

(With Sub Nodes
<NodeQ>
<NodeLookingfor>
I need to tell if EITHER of the NodeLookingfor's = Y. (In the example, there can be an uncertain number of node3's, with an uncertain number of nodes preceding it. So far, all of the VB code I've written keeps returning the data for the FIRST NodeLookingFor twice. This is a bit hard to explain, but hopefully you get the idea.